Debuting a new relationship in any social situation is a bit daunting, even if they have met your friends before!
Weddings are always a good time, especially if you have a partner to spend time with. But it is natural to feel a bit nervous, especially as there is so much etiquette and social weight put on wedding guests. Here are some tips to help you smash attending your first wedding as a couple.
Coordinate your outfits
Wedding attire is entirely dependent on the dress code set out by the happy couple. If you are unsure, drop them a message well in advance so you can get organised without adding stress to the couple.
Matching outfits as a couple may seem a bit cheesy but there are ways to do it without looking like twins. Wedding guest dresses come in a range of different colours and styles, so try different types to ensure you are comfortable. Your other half can then use accent colours in your outfit for theirs such as in a tie or pocket square. This leaves you looking coordinated without being too same-y.
Plan your arrival and logistics
You don’t want to be the last guest arriving at a wedding looking all harassed and stressed. Plan your journey before the big day. If you have to travel a bit further, consider booking a hotel nearby to make the morning easier.
If you do need a taxi home, book this in advance as well. This is especially true if the venue is in a more remote location as taxi firms tend to close earlier than those in bigger cities.
Practice good social etiquette
Social situations can be terrifying for some people but try to practice good social etiquette. Be open to chatting with new people. You may end up at a table with people you are less familiar with for the meal so use this as a chance to get to know them.
If the wedding is for a couple who know one partner better than the other, remember to introduce them and include them. There is nothing worse than standing quietly whilst your partner chats to everyone!
Support each other
Weddings can be intense so remember to check in with each other regularly. Try to take notice of your partner’s body language – you should be able to tell if they feel uncomfortable or tired. Discuss any nervousness or worries before you head to the wedding. If they are concerned about not knowing anyone else set up a brunch or drinks meeting with some other guests before the event.
This enables your other half to enjoy conversations without you by their side.
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