Whether you’re moving across the street or across the country, the experience of relocating can be exciting, exhausting, and overwhelming all at once. Between packing, organizing, and adjusting to a new place, it’s easy to miss a few critical steps that can make or break your moving experience. But with the right approach and a little foresight, your move can go from chaotic to (relatively) seamless. Here are the essential tips and tricks to know before you go.
1. Start Early and Make a Plan
One of the most common mistakes people make when moving is underestimating how long it takes to pack and prepare. The earlier you start, the less stressful it will be.
Begin planning at least two months before your move. Create a detailed checklist with timelines: book movers or a truck, collect boxes and packing materials, notify your landlord (if applicable), and begin decluttering. Break each task down into smaller, manageable steps. Don’t rely on memory—write everything down.
2. Declutter Before You Pack
There’s no better time to purge your belongings than right before a move. Go room by room and be ruthless. If you haven’t used it in the last year, chances are you don’t need it.
Separate items into four categories: keep, donate, sell, and toss. Consider hosting a garage sale or selling higher-value items online. Not only will you have less to move, but you might make a bit of money in the process.
3. Invest in Quality Packing Supplies
It’s tempting to go the budget route with packing supplies, but that can backfire quickly. Invest in sturdy boxes, strong tape, packing paper, and bubble wrap. For fragile items like dishes, glassware, or electronics, use specialized dish packs or padded boxes.
Label boxes clearly with both the contents and the room they belong to. Consider color-coding or numbering boxes and keeping an inventory list—this makes unpacking far easier.
4. Pack Smart and Strategically
Start with items you use the least—seasonal decor, books, extra linens. Save everyday essentials for last and pack an “essentials” box that travels with you. This should include important documents, medications, chargers, toiletries, a change of clothes, and any items you’ll need within the first 24 hours in your new home.
When packing boxes, use the “heavier on bottom, lighter on top” rule. Don’t overstuff, and always fill gaps with clothing, towels, or packing paper to prevent shifting.
5. Notify the Right People
Before moving, make a list of everyone who needs to know your new address. This includes:
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Utility companies (schedule disconnections and reconnections)
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Internet and cable providers
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Your bank and credit card companies
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Insurance providers
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Subscriptions and memberships
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Employers and schools
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The post office (set up mail forwarding)
Failing to notify key contacts can result in missed bills, lost packages, and unnecessary headaches.
6. Hire Help Wisely
If you’re hiring movers, do your research. Read reviews, get at least three quotes, and ask questions. Are they licensed and insured? What’s their cancellation policy? Will they handle fragile or specialty items?
For DIY moves, book your truck rental early, especially during peak moving season (May to September). Enlist friends and family to help, and reward them with snacks or dinner—it’s cheaper than hiring professionals and can be fun with the right crew.
7. Take Photos of Everything
Before dismantling furniture, take pictures of how it’s assembled. This will be invaluable when you’re reassembling beds, desks, or shelving in your new place. Also, take photos of the back of your electronics to remember how the cables are arranged.
If you’re renting, document the condition of both your old and new spaces with date-stamped photos. This can protect you in the event of disputes over damage or deposits.
8. Change of Scenery, Change of Mindset
Moving is a major life event, and it can be emotionally challenging. Take the time to say goodbye to your current home, especially if you’ve lived there a long time. Host a farewell gathering, visit your favorite local spots one last time, or create a photo book to commemorate the memories.
Remember, it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions—excitement, sadness, anxiety. Give yourself grace through the transition and allow space to process.
9. Unpack with Purpose
Once you arrive, resist the urge to unpack everything in a frenzy. Start with the essentials—kitchen items, toiletries, and bedding. Prioritize rooms based on functionality, like the kitchen and bathroom, before moving on to less critical areas like the guest room or garage.
Take your time to organize things properly as you unpack. It’s tempting to throw items in drawers just to be done with it, but this only leads to clutter down the road.
10. Get to Know Your New Area
Once you’re somewhat settled, take the time to explore your new neighborhood. Locate the nearest grocery store, pharmacy, and emergency services. Find your new favorite coffee shop or dog park. Join community groups online or attend local events to meet people and feel more at home.
If you’ve moved to a new city or town, use apps like Meetup or Eventbrite to find social or networking events tailored to your interests.
11. Don’t Forget About Mental Health
Moves are ranked among the top five most stressful life events for a reason. It’s not just physical labor—it’s emotional and mental too. Sleep disruption, routine changes, and the unknown can take a toll.
Practice self-care throughout the process: take breaks, hydrate, eat balanced meals, and ask for help when needed. If you’re moving due to a major life change like a divorce or job loss, consider seeing a therapist to help navigate the emotional impact.
12. Celebrate the New Chapter
Once you’ve unpacked (mostly) and are starting to feel settled, take time to celebrate. Whether it’s a housewarming party, a solo night with a favorite movie, or a quiet evening in your new space, marking the occasion can give you a sense of closure and excitement for what’s next.
Moving isn’t just about relocating things—it’s about opening yourself up to a new experience. New people, new routines, new memories. While the process can be daunting, the end result often brings growth, perspective, and a fresh start.
Final Thoughts
No matter how many times you’ve moved, each experience is unique. From the early stages of planning to the final box you unpack, each step holds the potential for stress—but also for joy and renewal. Armed with the right tips and a proactive attitude, your next move might just be your smoothest one yet.
So breathe, plan, and pack smart. Your new adventure is waiting.

