I’m lucky to know lots of successful, attractive interesting people, who also happen to be single.
My best friend and Addicted Co-owner Nadia is a perfect example.
Beautiful, smart, successful, Ambitous, the list goes on and on. And yet, she, and I are both single.
Let’s first just put it out there that we are not single from lack of effort. No, in fact, we have both been on many dates over the years that led to, well, not much.
While it may be that in ways part we both were focused on other things, namely building a business. But this year, we’ve both had time to breath again and still, we remain single.
Well seeing how Nadia and I have had years to talk about it, here’s what it comes down to:
There are a lot of people that need to up their game.
There seem to be a lot of people just drifting through life. Maybe these people in some way want the best for themselves but they aren’t will to work for it.
They seem less than engaged, they put in maybe 60% effort into life, their job, their health and fitness and it shows.
This isn’t Isn’t me being judgemental, I was just like that before my rehabilitation from drug 6 years ago.
Hitting rock bottom made me realize you have to give it your all. Work hard, Love Hard, and always live life with passion and intention.
So, when it comes to the search for my other half, Nadia’s or yours even, some of us just need more.
We need someone who’s not only playing the game, they are rewriting the rules or better yet, have completely thrown out the rules.
Here’s the deal: you don’t need to be rich, you don’t need to have a six pack or be an investment banker, you just need to be excited about something, willing to work hard for anything, and be living your life with passion, and intention.
Is that asking too much? Let us know what you think via twitter at @weraddicted!